Welcome, Carl!

Welcome, Carl!

We are please to announce that we have filled the Teams and Communications Coordinator role. We were truly blessed to have really great candidates apply and interview for the position, and after a lengthy process of prayer and careful consideration, we are happy to announce that Carl Leisegang was offered and subsequently accepted this position!

He will be transitioning from a part time to full time position on our staff team as of March 18, 2024. Join us in welcoming Carl into his new role!

The Twelve Days of Christmas, 2023

Day 1: Melissa Burke & Steve Coupland


Day 2: A Reflection by Tyler Loveman

As a child I loved trampolines. I wanted one so badly, mostly to pretend I was a Professional Wrestler without completely hurting myself. I was so happy the day my parents bought one and put it beside the swing set. That meant that the swing set became the top rope and the trampoline became the wrestling ring. If you know me, you know that this set in motion the obsession that would become a huge part of my life.

I remember being able to do back flips on the trampoline pretty easily. However, landing a front flip was much harder. When executing a back flip I can see the ground and place my feet well. However, when executing a front flip, I could not see the ground and so the tendency was to reach for it. If you reach too early you hyperextend your legs and fall. If you reach too late, you don’t land it and run the risk of kneeing yourself in the face… not great.

I explain this because during this Christmas season, I have experienced the presence of Jesus amidst the “front flip” of life. Advent holds wild and reckless expectations, filled with longing and hope of a better way. The way. Jesus. And with the birth of Jesus we have faith that the Messiah is here, with us. However, seeing the end (ground) or even the next step is hard. Maybe similar to the feeling Mary felt looking down at her dependent infant. Taking the leap of faith into the unknown is scary because we may not be able to see the ground or the landing right away. This is the place I find myself in this Christmas season. I am halfway through the front flip and all I can see is the sky and I have no idea where my feet will land. Will I land? Will I get hurt? I have faith that I will land with my feet on holy ground, because I wouldn’t have leaped in the first place if resilient faith was not present. Jesus is present in the midst of the “front flip”.

Rather than preemptively reaching for the landing, might Christ be persuading us to be in awe of the wonder and beauty that the sky brings? Christ is present in the mundane, the everyday, the common. I used to reject this idea because of the faith expression I grew up in that was relentlessly focused on “mountaintop experiences”.

I find the words of writer and liturgist Cole Aurther Riley helpful in this space “More than the grand beauties of our lives, wonder is about having the presence to pay attention to the commonplace. It could be said that to find beauty in the ordinary is a deeper exercise than climbing to the mountaintop.”

As we walk through these twelve days of Christmas, how is Christ present in the mundane? How is Christ restoring, comforting, reframing our situation in the midst of unknowing and uncertainty? I pray that you are able to be in awe of the mundane, and captured by the beauty of Christ during your “front flip”, it may be the only thing you can see right now, and what a gift it is.


Day 3: A Reflection by Sarah Flatt


Day 4: A Reflection by Ethan Brand-Papazian

I was one of those kids who grew up in a Christian household, I learned some of the very broad and well known stories in Sunday school, and I just kind of went along with it.But I didn’t really develop any sort of spiritual connection to these stories of scripture.

Last year, at the end of May, I was on a youth retreat and change conference in the Niagara Falls area ‘Veritas’, which means truth in Spanish. It was the first night of the event. The main speaker came up and gave such an inspirational and power-driven speech about how we can have a relationship with Jesus that is so much higher, greater, further, and deeper than any other relationship in our lives, where he knows what’s best for us and how we can be a disiple of him and his unfathomable work in this world.

This was the moment where I began to develop a real and deep relationship with God through prayer and, later on, scripture. Over the course of a year, I grew in the number of times I prayed, and I tried to take the stuff taught in church a little more seriously.

When I came to Elevation, I knew I had found a home for what church I belonged to. Then as I started listening to more and more scripture through a Bible app, my connection only deepened and got stronger.

In September I was baptized and now I have my own Bible to continue the journey of faith through Jesus’ lens.

I would also like to thank Brian for being my mentor. So far he has given me so much great advice on how to perceive so many different topics in the Bible, and how to be the best Christian follower I can be.

Obviously there’s still a lot of stuff I have to learn about being a disciple of Jesus, but I have faith that no matter what season of life I’m in, what challenges I face, what defeats I suffer, God will never be wrong and always be with me until the very end.


Day 5: A Reflection by Meredith Wagler


Day 6: A Reflection by Erv Wiens

How have we experienced the presence of Jesus recently?

Generosity

Marian and I spent five years living and working in South Korea. Most of our work related to Jesus Village Church in Chuncheon. We preached and taught classes and loved the members of the church and their children. Following an emotional farewell in 2012, we returned to Canada. We thought often about our friends in Korea but life in Canada picked up and we became occupied with many activities here.

In May of this year one of the members of the church visited us and asked, “When are you going to come to Korea and visit us again?” We assured him that we would love to but used the excuse of the high cost of the trip and my Parkinson’s health issues. A month later we received an email assuring us that members of the church would pay for the trip and look after all our costs while there. “Just let us know when you can come!” So we set an October date and went.

Talk about experiencing the love of Jesus! The wonderful generosity of the Jesus Village Community allowed us to experience the love of Jesus in amazing ways. They not only paid for our flight, but also for ten nights in a hotel and for every meal during our ten-day stay.

Hospitality

How can we describe the hospitality we experienced? We were hugged and held and generously fed with all our favorite Korean food. Every lunch and dinner were feasts.

These are Sally and Minsoo. When we first came to Korea, they were parents of one infant daughter. Now they have three children in university. We called Sally our Korean daughter. Since her English was good, she often translated for Marian when she worship-led or preached.

Marian and I taught primary-school age children of church families from 2002 to 2005. However, children become adults. During this recent trip, 10 of these children returned from around the world; a lawyer from Dubai, a pharmacist from Boston, an accountant from Hongkong, a sales person from Thailand and a couple of moms living in Seoul. How did we experience the presence of Jesus? They fed us and laughed with us and wept over us. When we asked, “how come you guys all speak such good English?” They said, “Well, you taught us!”

Love

And we experienced the presence of Jesus in their church services. They called the final service a “Homecoming Service”. After 11 years away, we were coming home to them. Their choir leader chose a song we recognized. As soon as the choir started singing, Marian skipped forward and joined the choir, as she often did when we lived there.

At the conclusion of the service, the entire congregation gathered around us and prayed a prayer of thanksgiving and blessing over us.

Back in 2004, the church celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary with a wonderful party. They were aware that now our 60th anniversary is coming shortly. Knowing Marian’s love for ice cream, Susie, a member of our small group, made sure there was ice cream cake available for the potluck meal.

In every possible way, this wonderful community loved us with Jesus’ love. They remembered sermons we had presented. One member still uses notes Marian used for a boundary workshop in 2011. How have we experienced the love of Jesus recently? Through the incredible love of our friends in South Korea!!!


Day 7: A Reflection by Ben Prins


Day 8: A Reflection by Mark Dettweiler

Giving thanks for the blessings of this day.

When I was child, the conclusion of Advent and the beginning of Christmas was not marked so much by the lighting of the Christ candle at church, but rather by the extinguishing of the light in my father’s shop. As with most children, December 24 was a day of great anticipation for me for many reasons, but mainly because we would open all our gifts on Christmas Eve.

The excitement of Christmas Eve would build to almost unbearable levels as the hours progressed and we smelled the meal being prepared and saw the mound of gifts that had been placed under the tree…some with my name on them! My five siblings and I all knew the Christmas Eve routine…first the meal, then off to church for the Christmas Eve service that generally took less than an hour long but seemed to last forever, and finally, FINALLY, back home to open our gifts together.

But we also knew that the Christmas celebrations would not begin until my father finished work. He operated a small meat business in a shop that was located about thirty feet from our house. We could see the lights in his shop from our kitchen window and as closing time approached, we watched and waited for the lights to go out. Of course, because the shop would be closed for a few days at Christmas, there were some extra chores to complete, and – agonizingly – the lights would remain lit past the closing time. So we waited and we watched and finally the lights would go dark, and Christmas could begin!

Each year our family of eight would gather around the table and, as always, my father would bow his head and say grace before the meal. “Heavenly Father, we thank you for the blessings of this day…” I know that is exactly what he prayed on Christmas Eve, because that is how he started his prayer every single day…daily gratitude for the blessings of today, of this day.

As a child I did not give much thought to the words of our daily grace; they were just repeated over and over before each meal. But words that are repeated daily get etched deeply into our minds and maybe even our souls. As I have grown older, I have reflected on the words of my father’s daily prayer, and I believe that they were not mere words recited by rote, but they were a sincere daily acknowledgement of the reality God’s blessing.

On Christmas, the blessings are usually quite apparent – the food, the love of family, the gifts, and restful time away from daily routines of work and school. But not every day is Christmas, and not every day is wonderful or easy. Is daily thanks for blessings each day just denying the reality that often life is hard and not every day is “blessed”?

I think that Christians are often glib to the point of insensitivity in responding to difficulties by speaking of “blessings in disguise” or saying that “God works all things for good” or “consider it joy when you face trials”. It’s as if acknowledging difficulty for what it is somehow brings the sovereignty and love of God into question. But the reality is that truly bad things do happen to truly good people, and sometimes there are simply no words.

So, is giving thanks for the blessings of the day on even difficult days living in denial? To that question, I would answer a resounding “No!” And the reason we can genuinely give thanks for daily blessing is rooted in the blessing of the first Christmas day:

“Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Emmanuel” (which means, God with us).“

‭“God with us”. No matter what the circumstance; no matter where the journey leads; in good times, and in times of great difficulty, God is with us. In Jesus, God does not watch from afar, but stands with us, weeps with us, celebrates with us. Because of Christmas, God is with us and God is faithful.

Scripture assures us that the mercies of God never come to an end, that they are new every morning. So we can be thankful for and ask with confidence for the mercies of God, even on – or especially on – days where those mercies are not apparent

It is my hope and my prayer that at Christmas we can more fully grasp the height, depth, and breath of God’s love in Jesus. And that the miracle of Christmas will bring us to a place of gratitude for the blessings of each day: Emmanuel, God with us no matter where our journey may take us.


Day 9: A Reflection by Shane Bauman


Day 10: A Reflection by Heidi Sawatzky

Something that has been on my mind recently is God’s creation. I am a big fan of the outdoors and have a love for nature. I work with Kindergarteners and one of my favourite things about that age group is their curiosity and love for nature. Getting down in the dirt to find worms, watching geese fly in a v formation, and noticing the details in things that often go unnoticed by adults. I often find myself in wonder and awe of God’s creation when I am in nature. The beauty seen while hiking a mountain in BC, the tiny details in snowflakes as they fall on mittens, the vastness of a blanket of stars we get to experience while camping, or the vibrant colours in a sunrise over my favourite lake. I experience these wonders and am reminded of our creative God and all that He has made, sometimes moved to tears at the beauty of it all.

On our service and learning Sunday in November, a group of us met for a forest walk and took a moment to have a “sit spot” (an exercise we do with my class when we visit the forest). Just a moment to sit on your own, to look and listen and notice what’s around you. At that moment, I was looking at the designs in the bark of the tree in front of me, and a thought kind of occurred to me. People are God’s creation. And it feels a little silly to write that, because obviously people are God’s creation. But, if the bark on a tree can make me pause and give thanks to God, how much more should I be thanking Him for the creation of all people? I am mesmerized by the intricacies of different plants and patterns in nature, but how often do the intricacies of people go unnoticed to me?

So now, that is on my radar: to see and appreciate and celebrate the creation of people. All people. The beauty in diversity! The fact that our brains can think and feel and have experiences that are unique and special to us. I want to look at people and notice the beauty in them. Their skills, their gifts, their passions, that make them, them. It seems like such a simple concept. But I find that if I don’t intentionally remind myself to stop and appreciate others, it’s easy to get caught up in a lifestyle that only revolves around myself.

Becoming a mom has been an eye-opening journey full of a new love and hope for our family. The experience of watching my belly grow and the anticipation of meeting our new gift with every kick and heart beat we got to hear. The wonder of my body changing and preparing for her arrival. Then she was here. She was so tiny and dependent. A gift. God’s creation on full display. And the miracle of life is on display all around us. Our neighbours. Our friends. The people we walk past everyday in the busyness of our lives. They are the beauty of creation and they are all around us.


Day 11: A Reflection by Erik Brown


Day 12: A Reflection by David Eckmier

I’ll be honest; I had to think harder and longer about how to answer this question than I thought I would. I’m not sure if it’s the lack of quality sleep I’ve had lately, or if it’s that my brain is trying to juggle many more things than usual in the lead up to Christmas… but it’s taken me a bit longer than I anticipated to figure out how to answer this question.

The past little while has been very challenging for our family. Kara has had a series of concussions over the last few years, the effects of which have proven incredibly difficult to overcome. It has been a long, difficult journey dealing with her symptoms, fighting with WSIB, attempting to juggle how we manage our home, our time, and our responsibilities, with much of the excess burden falling on me. And in all honesty, I’m very burnt out from trying to carry so much more of the load than I’m used to (or really capable of).

During this time, my successful wedding photography business all but evaporated thanks to the pandemic, and now the resulting “wedding gap” caused by people not meeting during the pandemic is continuing to prove incredibly challenging for those of us in the wedding industry for the foreseeable future.

Add in three young kids, a faith deconstruction journey, and nearly all of our close friends leaving the church we had been attending, and you had what has at times felt like a perfect storm of insanity.

But through this season of chaos, we’ve seen time and time again how God has been looking out for us. From finding a new faith community to call home within a few weeks of leaving our previous church; to providing for us financially through this entire Post Concussion Syndrome journey; to providing new friendships and like-minded people to learn and grow with; to most recently giving me the chance to step into a part time position that not only fills a need in our church community, but also helps fill in some of the financial gaps that my business is experiencing: God has faithfully made a way for us over and over.

It might not always look quite like we expected or hoped, and it certainly still has its headaches and tears along the way… but He has undoubtedly had our backs, and I’ve felt that incredible faithfulness and an overwhelming peace every step of the way.


Welcome, David!

Welcome, David!


We are excited to announce that David Eckmier has accepted a one year contract for the position of Children’s Ministry Coordinator!

He will be joining our staff team immediately. Join us in welcoming David into this role!

Ride With Us!

Ride With Us!

We’re participating in the Ride for Refuge on Saturday, September 23.

If you’d like to join our team of walkers or riders you can register here.

If you’re not participating in the Ride, we’d love for you to join us in the Courtyard at 11:30 to cheer on the finishers and enjoy a light lunch with us. You can register your attendance at our lunch here.

Please note, if you are participating in the ride you do NOT need to register for lunch!

 

RFR2023 Cheer Team
RFR 2023 Poster

Listen & Learn Resources


We started off the month of February 2018 by diving into some issues that we don’t talk about a whole lot in church. First, we looked at how an excess of sexuality in our culture has warped the way we think about this gift of God, then we launched into a longer conversation about the intersection of same-sex attraction and Christian faith.

During the month of March, coinciding with the season of Lent, we created midweek opportunities for our Elevation community to engage in a process of listening to and learning from others about the diverse ways we tend to think about this complex and often controversial theme.

The goal of this exercise was to raise our collective understanding of the various views that people in our Elevation community and in the broader Christian community have about the intersection of same-sex attraction and Christian faith. We believe that this learning process will help us have healthier conversations about this and related topics and grow in our appreciation of those who see things differently than we do.

During this season, our Steering Committee will be having parallel conversations, learning from both the materials used during the series and from the experiences of participants. We realize that questions around this theme have real implications for how we do life together as a church, so we will position ourselves to listen well to one another and to the Holy Spirit as we seek to honour God in our leadership of Elevation.

As we take these steps, our Staff and Steering Committee would invite you to pray along with us – that we would grow together in understanding, that we would be able to love each other well in the tension of not having all the answers, and that a deeper unity in Christ would be our reward!

If you did not participate in our learning sessions but would like to get caught up, please read on…

For starters, below are links to the two sermons in February’s SEX-XES series and the discussion questions that were used to guide the first leg of our journey exploring the intersection of same-sex attraction and Christian faith. Participants who may have missed one or both sermons should listen to them now.

Sex – Part One

Sex – Part Three

Discussion Questions for Sex – Part Three

(In case you’re wondering, no, there isn’t a sermon missing; Part Two was left out to highlight the limitations of talking about such an important theme in the context of a Sunday morning gathering.)


Session One Resources

“The only hope for authentic Christian fellowship is that we learn how to disagree. Too much is at stake to not learn. So much that one of the most critical capacities of the Church in our generation is precisely this: How can we agree to disagree, and do so in a way that actually fosters our capacity to witness to the gospel of Christ Jesus?” – Gordon Smith, How to Disagree…Graciously

In Session One, we will prepare ourselves to engage in healthy conversations about a topic that many of us do not see eye to eye on. Before we get together, please read this letter received by Julie Rodgers, a Christian writer and speaker, and what she wrote in response. Julie writes from an affirming perspective while helping to build bridges between LGBT individuals and Christian communities.

The Friendships that Survive

Next, please set aside some time to watch the following video, starting at 0:19:15 through 1:24:44. The title says it all: “A Thoughtful Dialogue on Sexual Differences.”

In this video, Justin Lee and Wesley Hill discuss Biola University’s Biblical Position Paper on Same-Sex Behavior, which is fairly representative of a traditional view of sexuality and marriage. They demonstrate how to engage in healthy dialogue about this topic as they share both the similarities of their stories and the differences in their convictions about how to live faithfully as gay Christians.

(If you want some more background on the conversation, you can watch from the beginning, or you can read Biola’s paper here, although we will dive further into the Biblical discussion in Session Two.)

While you’re watching, keep the following questions in mind, as they will help form part of the conversation during Session One:

  • What did you hear that you had not heard before?
  • What bothered you?
  • What inspired you?
  • What feelings did you experience as you listened in on their conversation?

To hear more from Justin Lee, check out his book, Torn, here.

To hear more from Wesley Hill, check out his book, Washed and Waiting, here.


Session Two Resources

In preparation for our second session, participants are asked to read or view a variety of resources which will provide an introduction to some of the different ways that Christians approach the Bible and, specifically, the passages most frequently tied to homosexual activity.

While we have acknowledged that there are more than two ‘sides’ to this conversation, there are generally two ways of understanding how the Bible speaks to same-sex sexual activity – either in a prohibitive way or in a way that leaves room for committed, monogamous same-sex relationships. We have gathered some resources under these two broad categories and would ask you to engage with all of the material, regardless of how well you think you may know one side or the other.

We have created two layers of resources – the first is the material we are asking “Everyone” to engage with, and the second are “Extras” for those who would like to explore this theme more, either prior to getting together for the Session Two conversations or afterward.

TIP: If you want to save some time when watching videos in YouTube, click the ‘Settings’ icon and increase the playback speed! 

Before you dive in to some position-specific arguments, read this brief segment from a book by Preston Sprinkle where he explains the significance of engaging what the Bible says about this important theme:

Reading: “My Journey” (People to Be Loved, p.13-21)

Traditional / Non-Affirming / Historical

“Everyone”

Article: Eight Theses on Sex (An article by Hans Boersma on the over-arching theme of Christian sexual ethics.)

Video: The Bible & Same Sex Relationships (In this three-part interview, John Dickson explains the Bible’s teaching when it comes to same-sex relationships. Total running time is around 25 minutes.)

Article: The Bible & Same Sex Relationships (A brief summary of the traditional reading of Biblical passages related to homosexuality by British pastor, Sam Allberry, who himself experiences same-sex attraction.)

Video: N.T. Wright on Gay Marriage (A brief clip from an interview with scholar N.T. Wright in which he explores the narrative arc of Scripture. Note: The clip cuts off mid-sentence as the discussion heads in a different direction.)

“Extras”

Reading: “Epilogue” (A brief summary at the conclusion of Stanley Grenz’ book, Welcoming But Not Affirming p.153-157)

Reading: “Lost in Translation” (A section from Preston Sprinkle’s book, People to Be Loved, p.103-120, where he explores the interpretation of malakoi and arsenokoites in greater detail.)

Progressive / Affirming / Revisionist

“Everyone”

Reading: “Imagination and Biblical Interpretation” (Read this section from James Brownson’s introduction to his book, Bible, Gender, Sexuality p.9-13)

Video: “A Matter of Integrity” (Watch the video featuring Steve Chalke, a pastor in the UK, discussing an article he wrote, which can be found here.)

Reading: “A Closer Look at the Prohibitive Texts” (Read part of a chapter from Ken Wilson’s book, A Letter to My Congregation, p.53-61, 73-80. For the sake of brevity, we have only included part of the chapter here. The remaining section is included in the “Extras” section below if you would like to read more.)

Video and Article: “A Brief Biblical Case for LGBTQ Inclusion” (Watch the brief video featuring Matthew Vines and then read the accompanying article.)

“Extras”

Video: “Why I Changed My Mind on Homosexuality” (A sermon given by pastor Danny Cortez. His specific discussion of the Biblical texts starts at 13:47 and ends at 41:46.)

Reading: “Reviewing the Seven Passages” (From James Brownson’s book, Bible, Gender, Sexuality, p.268-280)

Reading: “A Closer Look at the Prohibitive Texts” (Additional content from Ken Wilson’s book, A Letter to My Congregation, p.61-73

Further Learning

Additional resources will be added here. If you have found something that has been particularly helpful for you, please email the Pastoral Team and we will consider adding it to this space.